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Grief Support Services

Losing a pet can feel like losing a family member, and it’s natural to experience profound grief. It’s important to acknowledge these feelings and seek support that respects the bond you had with your pet. Grieving is a process, and support can make a significant difference in healing.

 

Dr. Kathleen Ayl Psychologist,

Certified Grief Support Specialist

(818) 651-5347

Website: https://www.griefassociates.com

Notes: Individual and group counseling focusing on pet loss. Online support group

Claire Chew

Life transitions and grief recovery specialist focusing on pet loss.

Website: https://clairechew.com/

Offers anticipatory and pet loss grief support.

Self guided support program: Healing Hearts and Paws available

Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement (APLB)

Online, non-profit organization dedicated to helping people grieve the loss of their pet.

Website: http://www.APLB.org

 

Children's Books

Tear Soup by Pat Schwiebert

If you are going to buy only one book on grief, this is the one to get. It will validate your grief experience, and you can share it with your children. You can leave it on the coffee table so others will pick it up, read it, and then better appreciate your grieving time. Grand’s Cooking Tips section at the back of the book is rich with wisdom and concrete recommendations—better than a casserole!

The Forever Dog by Bill Cochran

Mike and Corky are best friends; they do everything together. Mike tells Corky that they will always do everything together — forever. Until one day, when Mike comes home from school and Corky isn’t there…The story of how Mike comes to accept Corky’s death forms a simple, poignant portrait of a special friendship that both celebrates the joys of owning a pet and becomes a heartfielt guide for anyone who is coping with the loss of a loved one.

I'll Always Love You by Hans Wilhelm

In this gentle, moving story, Elfie, a dachshund, and her special boy progress happily through life together. One morning Elfie does not wake up. The family grieves and buries her. The watercolor illustrations, tender and warm in color and mood, suit the simple text perfectly.

Dog Heaven, Cat Heaven, by Cynthia Rylant

In Newbery Medalist Cynthia Rylant’s classic bestseller, the author comforts readers young and old who have lost a dog. Recommended highly by pet lovers around the world, Dog Heaven not only comforts but also brings a tear to anyone who is devoted to a pet. From expansive fields where dogs can run and run to delicious biscuits no dog can resist, Rylant paints a warm and affectionate picture of the ideal place God would, of course, create for man’s best friend.

Snort's Special Gift, by Suzanne Yue

In Snort’s Special Gift, Savy and her family explore different ways to grieve for and remember a beloved pet. This healing story addresses feelings of loss in gentle and supportive ways as the family shares happy memories and creates a beautiful celebration of Snort’s life. And in the end, Savy discovers that Snort has more gifts to share with her…

For Every Dog An Angel by Christine Davis

Many people feel a magical connection with one special cat or dog in their life. These two heartwarming books celebrate the timeless love between people and their “forever cats” and “forever dogs”.

Saying Goodbye to Lulu by Corinne Demas

A young girl and her loveable dog, Lulu, are best friends. But when Lulu grows older and gradually becomes weaker, the little girl must face the sad possibility of losing her dear friend, and inevitably, cope with the death of her companion. Though she is very sad and misses her very much, over time the little girl discovers that the sweet memory of her beloved Lulu will live forever in her heart.

I'll Always Love You by Hans Wilhelm

In this gentle, moving story, Elfie, a dachshund, and her special boy progress happily through life together. One morning Elfie does not wake up. The family grieves and buries her. The watercolor illustrations, tender and warm in color and mood, suit the simple text perfectly.

The Legend of Rainbow Bridge, William Britton

This book has comforted the hearts and souls of countless animal lovers around the globe. Written for adults and children of all ages, Mr. Britton’s healing words offer solace and comfort to those left behind when their beloved companions journey to Rainbow Bridge. This beautifully revised paperback edition is filled with beautiful illustrations and is a must for all who share their lives with animals of any kind. 

The Tenth good Thing About Barney, by Judith Viorst

My cat Barney died this Friday. I was very sad. My mother said we could have a funeral for him, and I should think of ten good things about Barney so I could tell them….

But the small boy who loved Barney can only think of nine. Later, while talking with his father he discovers the tenth — and begins to understand.

Resources For Adults

Heal Your Heart: Coping With the Loss of a Pet, Karen Litzinger (Audio CD)

Because of the unconditional love that animals give, the death of an animal companion can be especially profound. Sometimes others don’t understand the extent of this loss. The gentle, grounded words in this CD are like a dear friend comforting you during your time of grief. It takes you on a healing journey with words of wisdom, comforting affirmations, an inspirational reading, a guided meditation, and soothing harp music. The accompanying 20 page guidebook provides insight, healing strategies and resources.

Journey Through Pet Loss, Deborah Antinori (AudioBook)

This award-winning audiobook is a soulful outreach to pet owners who lose an animal companion through death or other circumstances.In an artful balance between helpful suggestions from her professional experience as a therapist and her personal experiences as a pet owner, Deborah covers coping with feelings, memorial tributes, the value of reminiscence, illness & death of a pet, grief phases, associations to other losses, what to tell children, issues for senior citizens and more.

When Only the Love Remains: The Pain of Pet Loss, Emily Stuparyk (Poetry)

Dear Reader, This book is for those who share a love and concern for all animals. Anyone who has ever loved and lost an animal companion knows the incredible pain and feeling of emptiness. I hope that this book can be a close friend to you and a source of comfort that will help you through the pain of losing a pet. Emily

Pet Loss: A Thoughtful Guide for Adults and Children

… a practical guide and an emotional support, Pet Loss offers unique advice for owners faced with an animal’s passing, from the difficult decision to put a pet to sleep to dealing with a veterinarian or making funeral or cremation arrangements.

How to ROAR: Pet Loss Grief Recovery, Robin Jean Brown

Robin Jean Brown understands firsthand the deep bond that can develop between person and animal. She’s not some cold psychologist, but rather a pet owner herself who dealt with her own painful journey through the grieving process. She found that there wasn’t a lot of help for her.

So Robin wrote the guide herself – to deal with your grief, effectively and step by step. She is personal, empathetic, and comforting – yet at the same time she’ll help you move through your grief.

Bill at Rainbow Bridge, Dan Carrison

The owners of departed pets want to know: that their pets are happy, that their own grief is normal, that they will be reunited with their pets one day, and that it’s OK to love again. Bill at Rainbow Bridge– written for all who have ever been blessed by the unconditional love of a pet– fulfills these wishes. This heart warming, poignant and profound story takes place at Rainbow Bridge–where departed pets play and romp, as they await their owners, at the threshold of the afterlife.

Article: Children & Pet Loss

Should children be informed? YES! Learning to accept illness, injury, or death is a natural experience in life. It is important that children have the opportunity to participate in family discussions of these
issues.

Ready to Talk?

If you’re considering in-home euthanasia for your pet, reach out to us at Gifts of Peace. Our compassionate team is here to provide support and answer any questions you might have. Let us help make this difficult time a little easier.